'I ghosted a bad job offer': Candidate ghosts recruiter after getting offered $15K less per year, recruiter won't stop calling

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    Font - "They lost their minds that I didn't respond to them."
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    Font - I ghosted a bad job offer and they lost their minds that I didn't respond to them. Ok so I'm actually expecting to get a little hate for this cause you know, just cause some people treat you like ain the career world doesn't mean you should stoop to their level. THAT BEING SAID, I did it anyway. Whoops.
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    Font - I got 3 interview requests at the same time last month. It was crazy, in this market? Holy moly. So, I go through the first interview with the first company, get through the process pretty quickly because let me be clear, it could literally have not been a better fit for me. Not to sound too braggy cause I'm really not that cool, but I'm in a niche field and to find someone with my level of experience for their opening must have been an easy day for that recruiter.
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    Font - Go through the whole process, I'm even transparent on what about I make now for salary. From the beginning, all the cards were on the table and not one nay was geard. Eventually, they send me an offer letter a few days after my third interview. An offer that THEY KNOW, by the way, is at least 15k less a year than I make now. AND I would have to go back to an office.
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    Font - I was not pleased as I'd been dragged along this long in the process, being as unnecessarily upfront as I was just to avoid wasting my time with this situation. Read the offer letter, was irritated and a little bit offended. I did try and counter at a reasonable amount, but they came back with another tiny increase and acted like they were doing something so special and unique just for me by offering more that I should feel lucky.
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    Font - So, I did the mature, rational thing and just ghosted them. Really, it was because I didn't want to waste any more time than I already had. They could not comprehend it. The recruiter called me every day for more than a week. Texts, emails. Eventually just blocked him. Then he has people start to try and call me from the office instead of his cell. Lucky for me caller ID exists. Oh well, onto the next one.
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    Font - grated_testes 7 hr. ago. edited 7 hr. ago How stupid are these people? How stupid do they expect you to be? You explained that you currently have a job that pays 15k more and is wfh. Odid they expect you to do? Take their offer? 739 Reply Share
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    Font - kx____. 6 hr. ago . edited 5 hr. ago In the case of most companies, the people that run them are absolute morons. They want you to not prioritize income amount (because that's too materialistic) while they only care about every dollar down to the penny. them through and through. 431 Reply Share
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    Font - tinyavian 9 hr. ago No hate here. It obvious that they are around. They're just upset they are now finding out. 626 Reply Share
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    Font - Smarty McPants4Life. 10 hr. ago I think you did the exact right thing. They were so disrespectful. They did not deserve a professional response since they were unprofessional from the beginning and wasted your time with their O 416 Reply Share
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    Font - Vocem Interiorem - 6 hr. ago "Why are you calling, I still have not received a realistic offer letter from your company, all I got was an insult." 121 Reply Share
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    Font - Salcha_00 7 hr. ago Since they didn't accept your counter offer, they should not expect a response. You did nothing wrong. 108 Reply Share
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    Font - Ok_Independence_4431. 10 hr. ago They don't lose their mind. It is just part of their job. You ghosted them, they ghosted other people.
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    Font - arcaeris 4 hr. ago Was the recruiter external? If so, they probably called nonstop because they thought they had your commission in the bag, and want that money. Same thing happened to me, a company and their external recruiter could not understand that I wouldn't take a $15k pay cut to work at their company. You didn't do anything wrong.
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    Font - princessgoulash OP. 1 hr. ago Actually not an external recruiter. Here is my theory: The company knew from being in the industry that my current company is hemorrhaging talent because of being bought out by another and subsequent 'cultural changes'. They probably got an influx of applicants from my company for engineering roles (not what I do) so thought 'oh my, all these people must be really desperate to leave!'
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    Font - But that makes it kind of more insulting to me actually. Trying to take advantage of people because you have a good opportunity to do so is still just a ✪ thing to do. Just a theory though. Guess I'll never really know.
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    Font - Uragami 5 hr. ago You gave them very clear expectations, twice, and they completely ignored them. They don't deserve your attention. Ghosting them is the right thing to do.
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    Font - Dry 6 hr. ago Investment_3017. Unblock them and then send back a counter offer double what you make now

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